Compassionate Approach to Liver Cancer Care
The diagnosis was stage 4 gallbladder cancer for Janet听顿鈥橝诲诲补谤颈辞 in February 2018. For the beloved matriarch鈥檚 family, the news felt tragic.听
鈥淭he fear this diagnosis evoked was beyond painful, and navigating the advice of experts was demoralizing,鈥 says Amy, Janet鈥檚 daughter. 鈥淐ountless consults at all the prestigious cancer hospitals yielded the same message: 鈥榊ou will lose your mother to this, you will lose her soon, and your mother is not a candidate for surgery.鈥 This was the refrain.鈥听
Janet鈥檚 family understood immediately that surgery was her only chance for more precious quality time with her family. As they explored the cancer-care landscape, they felt part of a cancer business, not recipients of personal, empathetic care.听
鈥淲aiting hours to see our doctor at another hospital only to share a few moments, trying to remember our questions, trying to advocate for my mother鈥檚 desire to fight, was a sort of prison of pain, a limbo that was the exact opposite of life saving鈥搃t was life-sucking,鈥 Janet recalls. 鈥淐ancer has become an industry, and the care provided around it, while precious and lifesaving, is often 鈥榗are鈥-less.鈥听
After Janet鈥檚 third infection鈥攁nd a procedure to remedy it鈥攖he oncologist recommended more chemotherapy. Janet鈥檚 husband, saw it differently.听
鈥淢y father made the brave decision to move her care,鈥 says Amy. 鈥淟eaving the first hospital was incredibly frightening. How could we leave? That鈥檚 what everyone asked. How could we not?鈥听
The听顿鈥橝诲诲补谤颈辞听family鈥檚 next stop was at听Weill Cornell听Medicine (WCM) with听Karim听Halazun,听MD,听assistant听attending听surgeon,鈥NewYork-Presbyterian Hospital,听and听associate听professor of听surgery,听麻豆高清.听
鈥淗e studied my mother鈥檚 case and concluded that not only was she a candidate for surgery, but he wanted to operate immediately,鈥 Amy remembers. 鈥淒r.听Halazun听warned the recovery would be hard, but believed he could remove the offending organ, a piece of her liver, and reconstruct her bile ducts.鈥澨听
Controlling Janet鈥檚 cancer after removing the bulk of it brought with it a much more hopeful prognosis--one that included enjoying friends, family, and her beloved grandchildren for years.听听
Moving her to 麻豆高清 brought a more optimistic plan, Amy said, and 鈥減atience, true care and compassion.鈥听
鈥We never waited hours to see our doctors at WCM. We have never languished waiting for test results that would only be delivered in person,鈥 she says.听鈥No question is not worth the time of a thoughtful answer.鈥听听
As she waited for her mother on the day of surgery, Amy felt relief at the mundane: a parade of expectant mothers, bellies swollen, exiting an elevator on their way to a Lamaze class.听听
鈥Not everything was all cancer all the time,鈥 she says.听鈥There are reminders everywhere at WCM that听life听goes on,听and they are truly there to their very best to help lead you towards optimism and yes, even a bit of joy.鈥听听
More than a year and a half later, Janet remains exuberant, cooks for her large family, and cherishes every family milestone, including the birth of her eighth grandchild.听听听
鈥溌槎垢咔 delivers next level care. Every single person that has touched my mother鈥檚 care has been uncommonly kind, patient, thoughtful, and expert at their job,鈥 Amy adds. 鈥淚t is care that is not just life-saving but life-affirming.鈥听